Here’s a TMI post for you if I’ve ever written one…
Our potty training has been extremely lax. Our philosophy has been that when EK is ready, she will start making moves. So we bought a little potty, put her on it a couple of times each day, asked her several more times a day if she’d like to use it (usually receiving a “no” for a while), and otherwise let her tell us how interested she was – or wasn’t. She’s just now two and a half, so I haven’t been terribly worried about it, especially because in the past month or so she’s been doing a GREAT job.
((Side story: Hubby and I traveled with the kids to GA for my high school reunion. On the way back to NC, we were, uh, really tired, from the party the night before, so we just put the kids in the car in their pajamas, and hit the road. We stopped at a Subway for lunch and hydration and rest, and EK decided that she HAD to use the potty. At Subway. Gross. And guess what she was wearing? One piece zip-up pajamas. So I’m in the Subway bathroom, exhausted but giving my A+ parenting game, stripping my daughter to her skin to hold her over the toilet seat, that I’ve completely covered with toilet paper but I’m still not letting her touch. After she has successfully done her business, I’m trying to get her back in her (dry!) diaper and zip-up pajamas with no changing table… aka standing up… without letting anything touch the floor. Blerg. That was a long ten minutes. Now back to regularly scheduled posting.))
She’s started mentioning using the potty more, so we’ve started asking her a lot more often, and it’s been working! We keep a dry diaper a lot of the day, and use the potty several times, so we’re feeling great. On Thursday, she even (wait for it…) POOPED in the potty! And even my limited potty training experience tells me that’s a milestone!
Funny little thing about the past two weeks… EK has decided she no longer wants to use the little training potty. She only wants to sit on an actual toilet. Okay, great. Except she can’t really keep herself from falling in all that well. It takes a little more help from whoever is with her. But it’s pretty cute to see how proud of herself she is when she’s tinkling in “Mommy’s potty”. We’ve been rewarding her with a couple of jelly beans each time, so she’s extra excited to get those!
So now we’re to the point that we need to really buckle down and get her from using the potty most of the time to all the time. We just bought some Pull-Ups, so that should help. What are you suggestions for completing the process? And then, how do we wean her off the jellybeans?!
With Emma, once we started pull ups, we’d say Keep Dora dry or Don’t go pee pee on Dora! We also rewarded for going pee pee on the potty AND for staying dry. So we’d check her pull up at different points in the day and if she was dry she ‘d get a fruit snack for that too. And for the weaning, once the fruit snack jar was empty (which we controlled once she was pretty much potty trained) she traded in the jar for a bigger toy to keep. And we had a family pizza party to celebrate once she was full time in underwear. Yay EK– sounds like she’s doing great!
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You have a GREAT system! I’m literally going to do all of that, haha! What fun you make it sound like… hopefully we will have that too 🙂
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It was definitely a process figuring out what worked for Emma! All kids are different. We had tried the weekend potty training marathon like 9 months previously and it failed big time. So we waited till she led us more or less. And she got it right away the second time around. We’re waiting for william and he’s been going on his own, we’ll probably introduce pull ups over the holidays.
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